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Ask a Matchmaker: Can Men and Women Be “Just Friends?”

Oct 12, 2012

by Trenia

This video made the rounds a few years ago, but the question it addresses is still a hot topic: [youtube height="400px" width="580px"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA[/youtube]   This, of course, is just one guy…

Getting Over a Broken Heart: What’s Your Strategy?

Oct 26, 2012

by Trenia

Breakups suck. Everyone knows that. And let’s be honest: for many of us, it’s the worst pain we’ve ever had to deal with. One lovelorn friend even went so far…

The Beauty of Dating on a Budget

Jan 15, 2013

by Trenia

Let your creative side blossom All of us have a little bit of a creative spirit inside of us; and it is up to each individual to nurture it and…

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Tips for Dating a Single Dad

Mar 09, 2018

by Trenia

Dating can be difficult. When single parents, possibly ex’s, and children are brought into the mix, things can get messy. Just remember these simple tips for dating a single dad…

How To Have A Confident Relationship

Apr 08, 2013

by Trenia

I strongly believe that confidence – in all of its forms – is most authentic when it comes from a vulnerable place; in relationships, this place is your heart.  A…

Dating + Kids

Dec 04, 2012

by Trenia

A topic that becomes more and more important as you crest 30, 35, and 40 is the topic of dating when kids are in the picture—either you have them or…

Winter Date Destinations

Nov 19, 2012

by Trenia

Ahh, wintertime in Chicago. Yes, it can get long, cold, and dark. And yes, sometimes it’s hard to feel particularly amorous when swaddled in six layers of amorphous cold-weather clothing.…

Dating a Divorcee: Is It Worth It?

Nov 18, 2012

by Trenia

Since a lot of Connectricity members are in their 30s and 40s, the topic of dating divorcees is brought up a lot. Many people are justifiably wary of dating one.…

Dating. Ask a Matchmaker: When to Have the First Kiss

Oct 20, 2012

by Trenia

Ahh, the first kiss—at once a thing of beauty and a perpetual source of consternation. When should you go for it? When should you avoid it? If you choose the…

Ask a Matchmaker: Can Men and Women Be “Just Friends?”

Oct 12, 2012

by Trenia

This video made the rounds a few years ago, but the question it addresses is still a hot topic: [youtube height="400px" width="580px"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA[/youtube]   This, of course, is just one guy…

Do Women Prefer Assholes? – Pt. 6

Oct 05, 2012

by Trenia

What Good Guys Can Learn From the Bad Boy Phenomen Gentlemen, I hope you’re not about to throw up your hands in exasperation, thinking, “Well, if they’re only interested in…

Do Women Prefer Assholes? – Pt. 5

Oct 05, 2012

by Trenia

We’ve been exploring the question of why a lot of women seem to go for assholes. Here are a few more reasons. Women Want Excitement Doesn't everyone? No one, male…

Do Women Prefer Assholes? – Pt. 4

Oct 05, 2012

by Trenia

In our previous post, we reached our verdict: There is a distinct (if not completely agreed-upon) tendency in women to be attracted to assholes, though that doesn’t necessarily mean they…